"Happy marriages begin when we marry the ones we love, and
they blossom when we love the ones we marry." Tom Mullen.
Whenever we try to find out the relationship between love and marriage both seems to be synonymous. Love is a dream and marriage is a reality. And when both dream and reality comes together it is the best thing that can happen to a person. Have we ever tried to find out what is love actually? Love is the subtle emotional wave within us, which is perennial in this world of death and decay. When we fall in love everything seems different. We start liking and feeling good about things we have overlooked earlier. We feel like we are on a joy ride and everything seems beautiful. The company of the person we love can make the most mundane chores seem like an exciting job. And these feelings of love is not seen later on when you are married to the person you love. So one side love is the feeling, which every one of us wants to experience and marriage is something, which calls for commitment and effort.
Any long-term successful relationship calls for effort and hard work. So when we decide to spend the rest of our life together by getting married than only the actual love starts. Love is more like a wonderful feeling, which we all like to experience on the other hand marriage calls for understanding and daily effort. We constantly need to nurture our feelings. It requires mutual respect for each other and time and attention as any other aspect of life. Love marriage can be the best thing if there is effort and commitment from both the side.
Love marriages have both pros and cons. It gives us time to know the person with whom we have decided to spend the entire life. We can understand each other in a better manner. On the other hand we start liking each other the way we want to see him or her. And later on after marriage when they behave the way they are it becomes difficult for us to accept. But if you really love somebody than you need to nurture your relation daily. Every relation has certain demands and certain needs to be met if it is to thrive and endure. So if you want to make your love marriage a success than give your marriage some more time and commitment you will see it blooming.
If your first love is your life partner than you are the blessed soul on this earth. There is nothing more you can ask for. As love is a feeling, which is experienced best when you are married. A happy marriage will always demand love, empathy, trust, faithfulness and commitment. If you and your partner can exchange these feelings than to sustain your marriage will be really effortless. Love is a magical experience, which ignites passion in human hearts and leaves an impact not possible to calculate. The concept of love is best understood when you spend the entire life with the person you loved. Because you get to share every aspect of love it gives you a sense of fulfillment. So next time when you think of love marriages also think of the responsibility and effort, which you have to put in to make your marriage a success.