The kinds of weddings that we see today were not how weddings
were celebrated in yesteryears. The various social customs and rituals, which
were associated with marriages, played a very vital role in deciding the
marriage between two families. That time the consent of the family and parents
were more important than the consent of the bride and bridegroom. The custom of
arranged marriages have been a part of Indian culture since the fourth century.
The practice of arranged marriages began mainly to maintain and unite the upper
caste families. For maintaining their family traditions the system of arranged
marriages started. Along with the concept of arranged marriages the dowry system
became prevalent in medieval India. Today this custom of dowry is one of the
major social menaces in the path of India's growth. It is a burden to the
bride's family and it has gone up to such an extent that ever year reports of
thousands of dowry deaths of newly wedded wife are heard every year.
Like
dowry the custom of sati, which used to prevail earlier was another such social
hindrance. Sati was self-immolation by a widow today the practice of sati is
illegal but still there are places in India were cases of sati have been
reported. So it shows that India is still not free from the clutches of social
evils. Today we owe the abolition of sati to Raja Ram Mohan Roy the social
reformer. Just like sati our country had another social evil called child
marriage. Though history tells us that child marriage was not prevalent in
ancient India the custom started mainly during the medieval India as medium to
safeguard the interest of the high caste people. They practiced child marriages
so that when their children grew up they don't marry in some other community or
caste. So it was a kind of a weapon they used to protect the interest of their
community and class. The custom was so rigid that many marriages were performed
during the Middle Ages in the cradle itself. It was mainly the role of the caste
hierarchy in perpetuating such a system. To stop the marriages between different
caste and communities this system of child marriages was followed. Even today
also in the remote villages of India the custom of child marriages is
followed.
So from the broader perspective it may seem that social evils
like child marriages, sati, and dowry have been eradicated from the society but
actually these practices have been so deep rooted that until we ourselves take
effort to eradicate it from its root it will be difficult to fight against these
social menace. Today when we see the wedding celebrations in the cities it
reminds of the gloss and glamour of Hollywood movies. Even the middle class
families celebrate their weddings in Bollywood style. Today just like any other
commodity in the market weddings have also become commercialized. There are
people to plan your wedding you don't have to spend extra time in thinking about
the menu or the venue of the wedding.